An early family history tactfully remembered Bulkeley as ‘a comely person, of very sweet carriage and demeanour towards all men’, but his life was dogged by bitter wrangles with his closest relatives. The seeds of this struggle were sown in 1585 when Bulkeley’s grandfather, Sir Richard Bulkeley*, disinherited his eldest son in favour of the children of his second marriage. The eldest of these children, Bulkeley’s father, was disinherited in turn in 1609, and in his will of 1614 Sir Richard confirmed his grandson as his heir.
As the heir to Sir Richard’s eldest son, it was Bulkeley’s cousin Richard Bulkeley of Whatcroft, Cheshire, who was cited as the Common Law heir to the family estates. The latter’s mother contested Sir Richard’s will, but in February 1622 (Sir) William Jones I* brokered an agreement which assigned most of the Cheshire lands to the senior branch of the family, while confirming possession of the Welsh estates to the descendants of Sir Richard’s second wife.
Though family disputes took some time to resolve, Bulkeley’s inheritance made him the most eligible bachelor in north Wales. Sir John Trevor I* offered a match in October 1621, which was welcomed by Lady Mary who, as executrix of her husband’s will, wielded considerable influence during her grandson’s minority. However, Bulkeley’s mother, Lady Anne, was ‘somewhat backward’, despite appeals from Sir Sackville Trevor* and Bulkeley’s uncle Sir Thomas Holland†. A counter-bid was received from the Caernarvonshire squire Sir John Bodvel, whose father-in-law Sir John Wynn† warned Lady Mary that the Trevors ‘shall be the greatest scourge to yourself, and will gain from you by your grandchild all the leases, and make you and the young lady [Anne] pensioners of theirs, whereas at this time you share the whole living between you’.
Sir William Jones would fain be nibbling with it [the match], and had promised him [Chedle] largely for his pains, but, quoth he [Chedle], my Lady [Mary] hath sent me a letter wherein she did let me know, that she would match her grandchild either with Sir John Bodvel, or Sir Roger Mostyn*, and with none else.
Ibid. 988.
Of course, these encounters may have been planned to encourage Bodvel to come to an agreement, but negotiations apparently stalled.
It was presumably either Jones or the Wynns who reported Bulkeley’s prospects to the marquess of Buckingham. The favourite arranged a match with his impecunious cousin, Dorothy Hill, which, though it brought no dowry, held glittering prospects: William Wynn* considered that Bulkeley ‘is had in so great estimation, both with the king, marquess, and [the] whole kindred, that he will be like to make his house flourish more than ever it did heretofore, for they intend very nobly towards him’. The first indication of royal favour came on the day following the marriage, when the king ordered the sequestration of the Anglesey lands kept from Bulkeley by his grandmother, ‘that the young man may receive no prejudice in his estate until this matter receive trial’.
The administration of Bulkeley’s Anglesey estates radically altered the balance of power on the island. He temporarily became a pensioner of the Wynns,
After Lady Mary Bulkeley lost her claim to the Anglesey freehold lands in November 1622, she filed a suit for the leasehold lands. When this was dismissed, she claimed, ‘the freehold [lands] by a lease in trust for her use during life,
Although still slightly underage, Bulkeley was returned as knight of the shire for Anglesey in 1626, replacing Sir Sackville Trevor who, having unseated John Mostyn at the general election of 1625, had lost his Anglesey estate on the death of his wife at the end of the year. If Trevor had any ill feelings about his replacement, these were not apparent to his son-in-law, Bishop Bayly of Bangor, who claimed on the day after the opening of the Parliament that ‘had I been in town sooner he [Bulkeley] should have been one of the knights of the Bath [at the Coronation]’.
Although little more than a tool of his mother’s ambitions in his family’s inheritance dispute, Bulkeley apparently became estranged from Lady Anne after her marriage to Thomas Chedle, which probably took place in the second half of 1625.
Bulkeley’s messy dispute with Chedle, ‘which made my name an anvil for every man’s tongue to beat on’, probably explains why a newcomer, Sir Arthur Tyringham* was appointed custos rotulorum of Anglesey in 1640, although Bulkeley hollowly protested that ‘I am very glad I have missed the custos’ place since it was made a business of that account there [in London]’.
