Cary represented a junior branch of a major Devon family with roots stretching back more than three centuries. Clovelly had been a Cary possession since at least the fourteenth century, though the independent family line there dated only from 1535.
Despite these difficulties, Cary enjoyed the benefits of a distinguished kinship network, which included the Bassets of Cornwall, the Chudleighs of Devon, and the Gorges of Somerset. Indeed, his election for Mitchell in 1604 depended entirely on his personal connections. His father-in-law Richard Carew possessed some influence there, having himself represented the borough in 1597, while Mitchell’s principal patron, John Arundell*, may already have been married to one of Cary’s half-sisters.
This episode aside, Cary seems to have pursued the quiet life of a country squire. The daring foreign exploits attributed to him in Charles Kingsley’s Westward Ho! are entirely fictional. In addition to long service as a local magistrate, Cary helped collect the 1614 Benevolence in north Devon, and supervised improvements to the county’s coastal defences in 1625.
