Stanley’s great-grandfather was born into the Lancashire branch of his family. Sometime between 1601 and 1609 Stanley himself served as an under-clerk to the Chancery six clerk Richard Wilkinson, whom he later described as ‘a kind and loving master’.
On his father’s death in March 1617, Stanley inherited a house in West Peckham known as Hamptons, but evidently remained at Gravesend, where he was a jurat as late as October 1622. By 1624 he had moved to Maidstone,
Throughout the 1630s Stanley remained prosperous, though the harvest failure of 1630 temporarily disrupted his supply of seed corn.
Stanley served as Maidstone’s mayor for a second time in 1641-2, and retained office even though his election was challenged in February 1642 by John Wall.
On the outbreak of the royalist rebellion in Kent in July 1643, Stanley mediated between the rebel leaders and the parliamentarian deputy-lieutenants. He tried to persuade the rebels to accept that ‘a reasonable satisfaction is far better than a miserable devastation’ of the county, but they failed to reply to his letter of 23 July, in which he communicated the offer of a temporary cessation of hostilities while Parliament considered their demands. Consequently, Stanley warned them that the deputy-lieutenants had resolved ‘to advance towards you with more forces than you are able to resist’ and he advised them to surrender.
Stanley apparently never paid the £1,500 demanded by the committee for the advance of money in February 1646.
Following the Restoration, Stanley resumed his former position on Maidstone’s town council. He died in 1669 and was buried in the chancel of West Peckham church. In his will, drawn up in March 1663, he left his remaining property, comprising two Rochester inns whose leases he had acquired in 1660 and some houses in St. Giles-Without-Cripplegate, to his wife, brother and nephew.
