Bodenham’s son traced his ancestry back to a twelfth-century lord of the manor of Bodham in Herefordshire, in which county Sir Roger Bodenham, the Catholic head of the family, still lived in 1600. The Member’s forbears settled at Biddenden, Kent, which probably explains why their name temporarily changed to Bodenden. They were modest gentleman farmers, holding only the 260-acre manor of Combe, near Folkestone.
Like his father, Bodenham had links with the Harington family: he studied at Sidney Sussex, Cambridge, refounded by the Haringtons’ Sidney relatives, and both his wives were granddaughters of Sir James Harington†, and thus his own third cousins. However, the importance of the link diminished after 1614, when death and debt led to the dismantling of the Harington estate.
Bodenham was appointed sheriff for Rutland in 1614, a year after his father’s death, but his estate was hardly sufficient to make him a serious candidate for the knighthood of the shire, even in such a small county as Rutland. His return in 1626 was almost certainly arranged by the former MP Sir Guy Palmes*, who had been pricked as sheriff following an outspoken parliamentary attack on the duke of Buckingham in August 1625.
Bodenham was one of the Forced Loan commissioners for Rutland who reported ‘little difficulty in accomplishing this service’. He later served as a commissioner for the collection of compositions for knighthood fines, and was again pricked as sheriff in 1634, when he complained that he was ‘made this year a beggar by my office’.
Although nominated as a commissioner of array for Rutland, Bodenham is not known to have played any active part in the Civil War. However, his heir Sir Wingfield Bodenham raised a regiment of horse for the king, was captured by Oliver Cromwell* at Burghley House in July 1643, and held prisoner in the Tower for three years.
