On hearing from Long Wellesley in 1811 of his engagement to the heiress Catherine Tylney Long (who, according to the cartoonists, found it ‘impossible to resist such a Pole’) his father had written:
I trust ... you may continue to deserve the astonishingly good fortune you have met with ... If you will act up to the determinations you have formed, you will be all that your mother and I can wish you to be, and you cannot fail of making Miss Long happy.
M.D. George, Cat. of Pol. and Personal Satires, ix. 11744, 11747, 11844; Redbridge Local Hist. Lib. Long Wellesley mss, Wellesley Pole to Long Wellesley, 19 Nov. 1811.
Long Wellesley, surely one of the most odious men ever to sit in Parliament, soon blighted those pious hopes. By 1818, when he was returned for Wiltshire at a reputed cost of £32,000 in borrowed money, he was on the verge of ruin, largely, though not quite entirely, as a result of his own extravagance. By his marriage settlement an income of £13,000 was secured to his wife as pin money. He had a life interest in those estates of which she had the fee, and there was a power reserved to them both to charge this property with £100,000 by way of mortgage. The estates themselves were protected by entail on his eldest son. The mortgage was duly raised, but it did not rescue Long Wellesley from his embarrassments.
He lived for about two years in Paris where, sustained by his wife’s separate income, he moved in fashionable circles.
If you persevere for only three years you may return here in affluence and credit far beyond anything we thought possible ... If you ... leave us to exercise our own discretion, you may return at the end of three years with all your debts paid or secured; with all your creditors satisfied ... with Mrs. Wellesley’s diamonds saved; with Wanstead Park ... free for you to do with it as you please; with the farms on all your estates in perfect repair ... with no arrear due to any person whatever; and with a clear income of £13,000 a year.
Long Wellesley mss, Maryborough to Long Wellesley, 16 Aug., 10 Sept. 1822, 25 Feb., 1 Aug. 1823.
Long Wellesley had already dished this prospect by committing a fresh act of folly. At Naples in the summer of 1823 he began a blatant adulterous relationship with Mrs. Helena Bligh, a protégée (some said a natural daughter) of Wellington. She left her ailing husband and Long Wellesley contrived to have her taken into his own establishment. Their fornication continued intermittently through the winter and was resumed in Paris in June 1824, when Mrs. Long Wellesley, goaded beyond endurance, threatened her husband with separation unless he abandoned Mrs. Bligh, whom she was willing to pay off. She appealed for Maryborough’s intervention but Long Wellesley, brazenly trying to exculpate his conduct and browbeat his wife, would have none of this. In July Mrs. Long Wellesley went to England with their three children, having agreed to follow Long Wellesley’s instructions for their upbringing and education. When she discovered early in August that he had renewed his intercourse with Mrs. Bligh she let him know that it was an insuperable obstacle to any reconciliation and that if he came to England to bother her she would start divorce proceedings.
If you come ... before your affairs were arranged, I see no possibility of preventing your being put into jail during the whole of my life ... My only wish is to endeavour to save you from destruction; and to do this, it is absolutely necessary that you should be sensible of your true situation. I vainly hoped I had made you so; but ... I see ... that you have relapsed into the same vain delusion which has led you on to your ruin ... The whole world approve of your wife’s separation from you; and were you now to come to England and it were possible for you to remain out of jail you would be driven out of society ... [Mrs. Bligh] would be a monster among savages. Among civilized Christians she is an outcast. If you do not separate yourself from this abandoned, profligate wretch, you must share her fate.
Long Wellesley mss, Maryborough to Long Wellesley, 2 Aug. 1824.
Long Wellesley finally alienated his father early in 1825 by ordering him to give up his trusteeship. This he did, resolving to have no further communication with his son, whose letters he returned unopened. Mrs. Long Wellesley had already decided to seek a divorce when, on 7 July 1825, Long Wellesley, who had been in London incognito with Mrs. Bligh for a fortnight, gained entry to her house and forced her to flee with their youngest child Victoria. The next day she filed a bill in chancery to make Victoria and her two elder brothers wards of court and served Long Wellesley with a citation for divorce. He returned to France with Mrs. Bligh, who on 22 Aug. 1825 gave birth to their illegitimate son. Meanwhile Mrs. Long Wellesley’s health had collapsed and she died ‘of a fever’, aged 35, 12 Sept. 1825, after enjoining her unmarried sisters Dora and Emma to continue their protection of the children.
Long Wellesley’s repeated applications for custody were refused by the Misses Long, who claimed to have the support of his close relatives. When the dispute reached court, 5 Nov. 1825, lord chancellor Eldon ruled that Long Wellesley’s residence in France justified refusal of custody. He then petitioned to have a proper scheme of education settled by the court and this matter, together with the appointment of guardians, was referred to the master in chancery.
Everything is going on as well as possible ... Be patient, and I will pawn my life but I beat them all ... Do not imagine I am humbugged in any way ... I really am glad you are not with me. I am quite myself. I am acting without impetuosity. My mind is quite free from reflection, and I have so solidly laid the basis that the blow I give shall be but one and that a lusty one. All depends on your ... absence from me till I get my children. Then neither duke or devil can breach either you or me.
Long Wellesley mss.
On 4 Jan. 1826 he petitioned chancery for the custody and future management of his children. Numerous affidavits were filed for and against his claim and the case, which excited great public interest, dragged on throughout the year. In the prerogative court, 24 Feb. 1826, Long Wellesley challenged the validity of a testamentary paper signed by his wife five days before her death revoking, ‘to serve the interests of my dear children’, her will of 1 July 1815, in which she had disposed of a contingent remainder of certain lands in his favour and charged others with a payment of £50,000 to him. He was granted sole administration of her personalty and effects in preference to Maryborough and Thomas Windsor, the executors named in the original will.
Long Wellesley resolved to appeal against the judgment to the House of Lords and, in an effort to strengthen his hand, importuned Wellington, the temporary guardian of his children, to effect a reconciliation with Maryborough. Yet by persistently threatening to disclose scandalous ‘family secrets’ if Maryborough refused to support him he soon alienated Wellington too. He duly published his Two Letters to Eldon, ‘with official and other documents, and additional notes’, which went through three editions between 6 May and 1 Aug. 1827. This, as well as excusing his adultery and dismissing much of the affidavit evidence against him as perjured, sought to prove that his family and the Misses Long were as vicious and immoral as himself. His appeal to the Lords was rejected on 4 July 1828.
On 31 July 1829 Long Wellesley personally conducted before Lord Lyndhurst, Eldon’s successor, his case against a chancery order forbidding him to see his children except in the presence of a third party. The solicitor-general, opposing him, made much of allegations that he had earlier abused his access to the boys at Eton. Lyndhurst saw no reason to rescind the order but gave Long Wellesley the right of reply, in which he claimed to have ‘established, to the satisfaction of all impartial minds, that the false evidence by which I have been traduced, and robbed of my parental rights, was the offspring of malice’.
In March 1830 Long Wellesley, abetted by the radical Daniel Whittle Harvey*, started for Essex on a vacancy in opposition to the ministerialist Bramston, but on the day of nomination he made way for Henry Conyers, who had a prior claim. In a self-righteous explanation of his conduct, a feature of virtually every transaction in which he became involved, he ‘declared himself a reformer’ and advocated a radical redistribution of taxes.
His uncle’s ministry numbered him among their ‘foes’ and, showing no lack of confidence on his return to the House, he used the debate on the address, 2 Nov. 1830, to lecture them on the need for wholesale changes of policy. One ministerialist sarcastically applauded his reappearance at Westminster ‘with such a magazine of oratory’, while another Member reported that his speech ‘excited much laughter’.
No doubt, some time back a something more moderate reform would have been received, but he firmly believed that a less radical reform would not suit the exigencies of the times ... The basis of the bill was to represent property, locality, and influence possessed by locality.
The Times, 19, 26 May 1831.
Yet he found some cause for complaint against the government for what he saw as their failure adequately to support his ‘wishes and interests’ at the election. Ellice, the patronage secretary, thought he had been ‘wholly misinformed’ but, anxious to placate him on account of his steady support in the Commons, gave him ‘the most ample explanation’, which seems to have smoothed things over.
At the prompting of some Marlborough reformers Long Wellesley condemned the anti-reform petition presented by William Bankes, 24 June 1831, as the product of bribery and intimidation; and on 5 July he presented a counter-petition in support of the revised reform bill, for which he voted at its second reading, 6 July, and against an adjournment, 12 July. He then provided the House and the public with a diversion from the reform struggle by abducting his daughter from her aunts’ residence near Godalming on 15 July. Summoned to appear before lord chancellor Brougham the following day, he admitted the deed but refused to surrender the child, and was placed under house arrest for contempt of court. Brougham informed the Speaker, as did Long Wellesley who, disputing the chancellor’s right to commit, claimed the immunity of parliamentary privilege. The matter was referred to the committee of privileges, before which Long Wellesley appeared on 19 July. One of its members, Edward Littleton, recorded:
The profligate dandy perfumed the room as he entered. We asked him a few relevant questions, and then he made a long speech, stating what had passed in court between him and the chancellor, and he concluded apparently greatly affected, and shedding tears, and then withdrew.
The question became a party squabble, with opposition lawyers eager to embarrass Brougham, but on 26 July, ‘to the general surprise’, the committee decided that privilege did not apply. Long Wellesley meanwhile had raised the issue in chancery, but after the adverse Commons verdict his leading counsel declined to argue the case of lack of jurisdiction, 28 July. His junior wished to do so and was allowed by Brougham to state it as amicus curiae, before the chancellor pronounced a judgement upholding the jurisdiction. Long Wellesley was not released until 22 Aug., after Victoria had been retrieved from France and restored to her aunts. He continued to dispute the question of his access to the children but, after a private hearing before the chancellor in December 1831, he was again left frustrated.
The day after his release Long Wellesley voted in the government majorities on the Dublin election controversy. He voted for clause 22 of the reform bill, 30 Aug., and for its passage, 21 Sept., having the previous day supported it as ‘a renovation of the constitution’, despite misgivings over some of its details. He voted for the motion of confidence in ministers, 10 Oct. At the Essex reform meeting, 10 Dec., he attacked the bishops and declared:
Reform must pass, and all he saw was a scramble for power. He cared not for the ministry: all he wanted was pure representation, which would give every reform - financial reform and taxation.
He then almost came to blows with Harvey over an alternative address, but Western interceded to restore peace.
Long Wellesley stood for the Southern division of Essex in coalition with his fellow reformer Barrett Lennard at the ensuing general election, when he again hid from his creditors at Calais and left his campaign in the hands of his wife and Agar. The intervention of a strong Tory agriculturist candidate destroyed the reformers’ alliance and Wellesley was beaten into third place. As ever, public recriminations followed: Wellesley accused Lennard and Western of a breach of faith and was charged in return with having been the first to abandon the coalition in an attempt at self-preservation.
By then his affairs were again in chancery in a dispute with his wife and elder son over the terms of a trust deed of 1834. She, who was a frequent recipient of parish relief and sued in formâ pauperia, sought to enforce payment of an annuity of £1,000 which Long Wellesley, in defiance of several court orders, refused to concede. His son wanted execution of those provisions of the deed which involved the payment to him of substantial sums and the raising of £462,000 to meet encumbrances.
While some of the more spectacular feats of iniquity and depravity which were credited to Long Wellesley were obvious fabrications, the reality was sordid enough. A censorious obituarist dismissed him thus:
The mockery of heraldry was never more displayed than in the case of this most unworthy representative of the honour of the elder branch of the house of Wellesley ... A spendthrift, a profligate, and gambler in his youth, he became a debauchée in his manhood ... Redeemed by no single virtue, adorned by no single grace, his life has gone out even without a flicker of repentance; his ‘retirement’ was that of one who was deservedly avoided of all men.
Gent.Mag. (1857), ii. 215-16.
