It is possible that Wymondham, whose origins are extremely obscure, was not born a gentleman, but he was sufficiently prosperous to begin investing in land by the mid 1430s, when he bought two manors at Crownthorpe near Wymondham. Before the end of the decade, he had bought another manor at Roudham, a few miles to the south-east.
The duke of Norfolk had a particularly unruly following, and like other members of his retinue Wymondham was guilty of acts of lawlessness. In 1438 he and others acting on their lord’s behalf forcibly disseised Ralph Garneys of the manor of Stockton, Norfolk, and two years later he was indicted for helping Thomas Chaumbre, a Mowbray follower who had played a part in the murder of James Andrew† in July 1434, to escape from the Marshalsea prison. In the indictment Wymondham is described as an esquire, late of Framlingham, Suffolk (where one of Mowbray’s main castles lay), alias John Deye late of Wymondham, Norfolk, alias John Braunche late of Buckenham in the same county.
By that date, Wymondham numbered Sir Thomas Tuddenham* and John Heydon*, both members of the rival affinity of the King’s chief minister, William de la Pole (later duke of Suffolk), among his feoffees. Before the end of the same decade, he himself was also a member of the de la Pole affinity,
By late 1447, Wymondham and his first wife Margery were feoffees of Sir Andrew Ogard*, who had become associated with the duke of Suffolk’s circle through his marriage to the daughter and heir of her relative, Sir John Clifton.
It was while standing outside his gate at Norwich one morning in May 1448 that Wymondham became involved in a fracas with James Gloys, chaplain to the Paston family. The trouble began over a trivial matter, Gloys’s failure to raise his hat as he walked by, but Wymondham may have been particularly sensitive to social slights, intended or otherwise. Daggers were drawn and he and two of his servants, Thomas Hawys and John Norwode, attacked the chaplain, who fled to the town house of Agnes Paston, mother of John Paston*. As it happened, Agnes and her daughter-in-law, Margaret, were attending mass at a nearby church. Disturbed by the noise (at the very moment of the consecration, or so Margaret subsequently claimed) the two women went out into the street to find out what was happening. There they encountered Wymondham, with whom they exchanged angry words. He called them ‘strong hores’ and, despite his own obscure (and probably non-gentle) background, appears to have referred to the Pastons and all their kin as ‘charles’ [churls] of Gimmingham, a reference to their rumoured servile origins. That afternoon the two women complained about the incident to the prior of Norwich. He sent for Wymondham but, while they were talking, Hawys attacked Gloys again. Fearing further trouble, Margaret Paston sent the chaplain to her husband to ensure his protection.
The enmity between Wymondham and the Pastons was stimulated by local politics, since by now the MP was associated with the de la Pole affinity while the Pastons and men like William Yelverton* were friends of Sir John Fastolf, one of its principal opponents. When the duke of Suffolk fell from power in February 1450, Fastolf and his allies took the opportunity to act against his followers. In October that year Yelverton’s clerk, William Wayte, suggested that the authorities at Norwich should draw up a bill outlining the wrongs which Wymondham and three others of Suffolk’s men, Tuddenham, Heydon and William Prentys, had allegedly done to their city. The intended recipient of the proposed bill was Richard, duke of York, who now held sway in national politics and to whom Wymondham’s old master, the duke of Norfolk, had allied himself.
Apart from securing protection from his enemies, Wymondham had another important reason for seeking the good lordship of Lord Scales, since the peer played a key part in his purchase of Felbrigg and seven other manors in north-east Norfolk which had belonged to Sir Simon Felbrigg KG. Before his death in 1443, Sir Simon, who had no surviving sons, had agreed that Scales, one of his feoffees, might buy the reversion to these manors, to vest after his widow’s life-interest expired. A few years later, Scales undertook to pay over £850 for it, although the proposed purchase was delayed by disagreements between the widow, Katherine Felbrigg, and some of her late husband’s trustees. It was never completed, perhaps because Scales ran into financial difficulties. By the autumn of 1451 he had made way for Wymondham, but it is not known what the latter paid Katherine for it. His acquisition was not trouble-free since John Dam*, one of Sir Simon Felbrigg’s executors and trustees, claimed a right to a part (albeit a small one) of the Felbrigg estate. In response, Wymondham and Katherine agreed to stage a collusive legal action by which he would win the lands claimed by Dam from her, and then allow her to occupy them for the rest of her life. Katherine survived until the end of the decade, but Wymondham gained possession of the Felbrigg manors in March 1454, when she leased them to him for 20 years, for an annual rent of £90, probably a very hard bargain on her part. There is no doubt that Wymondham’s readiness to meet her demands, as well as those imposed on him during his earlier acquisition of the manor of Wicklewood, was influenced by his desire to obtain land. He had bought Wicklewood and other lands in the Norfolk hundreds of Forehoe and Shropham from William Rookwood and his wife, Elizabeth, in 1443. Having handed over £80 of the asking price of 320 marks immediately, he had committed himself to paying the arrears of £4 which the manor’s farmers owed Rookwood and agreed to present Elizabeth with a gown worth ten marks.
Nearly a decade later, Wymondham and Rookwood (or perhaps William’s son and namesake) acted together on behalf of Sir Thomas Tuddenham, standing surety for the knight when he promised to keep the peace towards the Mowbray retainer, John Howard*, in the spring of 1452.
At this date Wymondham was seeking a wife for himself, for his first wife, Margery, had died in 1456. Before the end of the decade, he married Elizabeth, the widow of Sir John Heveningham and William Allington II.
Fastolf had died on 5 Nov. 1459, the very day on which Wymondham was returned to the Parliament that opened at Coventry later that month. His election indicates that, like other members of the de la Pole affinity, he had aligned himself with the Lancastrian government. The Parliament, packed with supporters of the royal court, attainted the duke of York, the earl of Warwick and the other Yorkist lords, and in its aftermath Wymondham served on several anti-Yorkist commissions. During the assembly, he attempted to do down the Pastons by putting it about that Sir John Fastolf’s chief executor, William Waynflete, bishop of Winchester, had attained his executorship through ‘meigntenaunce’, as part of a scheme to ensure that they would secure the knight’s inheritance. For his pains he received a dressing down from Waynflete, then chancellor of England, and was rebuffed by the treasurer, the earl of Wiltshire.
The Parliament did nothing to resolve the country’s political divisions. In the summer of 1460, the Yorkists won the battle of Northampton and seized control of both the King and government, a change at the centre of power which left Wymondham and other de la Pole men highly vulnerable to attack from their enemies. At about this date, it was said that he, Tuddenham and Heydon had become counsellors of the maverick Thomas Daniell*, but it is unlikely that he could have given them much help.
In the following autumn, shortly before the Parliament of 1460 opened at Westminster, John Paston received a letter from his mentor, Friar Brackley. Brackley advised him, should he be in London when the assembly began, to seek a commission for Wymondham’s arrest from the chancellor.
Remarkably, Wymondham must have made his peace with the Pastons not long afterwards, for in November 1465 he wrote a courteous letter to the then imprisoned John Paston. Its purpose was to offer Paston’s wife Margaret lodging in his ‘pore hous’ in Norwich, so that she could escape an outbreak of disease at the place she was staying, and in a postscript he gave the troubled Paston moral support, urging him to ‘hold vp your manship’.
By the time of his last Parliament, Wymondham was an old man although evidently a vigorous one. He lived to see the Readeption of Henry VI and the restoration of Edward IV and he pursued a Chancery suit against William Swan of Norwich, one of the executors of Nicholas Aldewyn of that city, either in the late 1460s or early 1470s. In his bill, Wymondham said that he had purchased a messuage in Norwich, along with the reversion of another there, from Swan’s co-executor, William Dynne. His complaint was that Swan had refused to co-operate with this transaction by relinquishing his interest in those properties.
Wymondham died at Norwich on 4 June 1475,
