Of unknown antecedents, Wilde moved to Sandwich at some point after his first marriage to Margery, the widow of a leading local merchant, Henry Cacherell.
The course of Wilde’s early career in town government is unknown, owing to the lack of municipal records before 1430. Shortly after becoming mayor of Sandwich in December that year, he gained election to his first Parliament, in which he sat alongside Henry Brice*. By the following December, he was a jurat (although he had almost certainly held that office during the 1420s), and on 10 Apr. 1432 he was returned to his second Parliament, on this occasion alongside the mayor John Green I*. Eighteen days later, he and Green were empowered, while at Westminster, to represent their town in negotiations between the Cinque Ports and Great Yarmouth.
It would appear that the death of his first wife and his remarriage to Thomasina, the widow of the west Kent gentleman, Henry Aucher, was what drew Wilde away from Sandwich. This was a prestigious match for a merchant and brought him into kinship with other landed families from that part of the county, among them the Ellises of Kennington and the St. Legers of Ulcombe. While the date of Margery Wilde’s death is unknown, she was certainly no longer alive in December 1432 when he was discharged of all debts she had owed to the executors of her previous husband, Henry Cacherell. Wilde had married Thomasina by Easter term 1437, when they brought a plea of debt in the court of common pleas in the capacity of executors of Henry Aucher, who in turn had been executor of Thomas Ellis† of Kennington.
Following his second marriage, Wilde continued, for some years at least, to maintain business contacts in the Kentish ports, for he and William Brewes* of Dover shipped 13½ sacks of wool from Sandwich in 1440. (He must have formed a good relationship with Brewes, whom he served as an executor after the latter’s death a decade or so later).
After Wilde’s death (‘in hys bedde in a night sodenly’) in 1461, however, his widow and friend fell out with each other over debts that Lemyng had contracted with her late husband. The MP had died intestate and Thomasina, Lemyng and Robert Ellis took on the administration of his goods, a task that did not run smoothly because she claimed that Lemyng was one of Wilde’s largest debtors, owing £420 for 90 sacks of Lindsey wool as well as 600 marks in repayment of a loan. They were still at odds when Lemyng himself died, probably in the early 1470s, after which Thomasina pursued his executors, principally Thomas Pomeray, prior of Christ Church, London, in the Chancery. Pomeray disputed the amounts she claimed and asserted that, having settled Lemyng’s debts to the value of 1,500 marks, he had ‘ryght little’ with which to make restitution to her.
