Descended from a branch of an old Yorkshire family that had established itself in East Anglia in the mid fourteenth century,
While it is not clear when Miles came of age, it is very unlikely that he had attained his majority when he accompanied his father on Henry V’s second expedition to France in 1417. In July that year, shortly before crossing the Channel, father and son mustered with other members of the royal army. The young Miles did so as a member of Sir Brian Stapleton’s ‘company’, itself part of the retinue led by Thomas Montagu, earl of Salisbury.
In November 1423 Miles, his younger brother Brian, his uncle Edmund Stapleton and others entered into a recognizance for 100 marks with John Wakering, bishop of Norwich.
By the mid 1420s Miles and an esquire named John Esmond were in dispute with the city of Norwich. While the reason for it is unknown, the quarrel was sufficiently serious for Thomas Ingham*, the city’s mayor in 1425-6, to seek the good lordship of the King’s great-uncle, Thomas Beaufort, duke of Exeter, and it was probably to discuss this matter that Stapleton’s father, Sir Brian Stapleton, and others breakfasted at Ingham’s house one morning in July 1425.
Later in the same decade, Stapleton married his second wife, Katherine, an important match since she was Suffolk’s cousin. Yet, although she was an heiress, a de la Pole family settlement ensured that the bulk of her father’s estate had passed to the earl, his nearest male heir. Sir Brian Stapleton died shortly after the marriage took place. In his will of 1438 he left all his lands to his eldest son (whom he named as one of his executors), provided that Miles paid an annuity of £20 to his younger brother and his wife for the rest of their lives, established a chantry and fulfilled various other conditions.
When he came into his own Stapleton was a knight of the shire for Suffolk in the Parliament of 1439. A week before this assembly opened, he was pricked as sheriff of Norfolk and Suffolk, counties in which he had recently served as escheator and as a j.p. In January 1442 he was re-elected to the following Parliament, this time as an MP for Norfolk, his principal county of residence after his father’s death. Among the main concerns of the Commons of 1442 was the security of the seas, and it drew up a plan for a force of eight capital ships and 14 smaller vessels, carrying a total of 2,260 men, to guard the English coast for six months in the second half of 1442 and a further eight in the following year. The government accepted the plan, but in a much curtailed form, reducing its scope to a mere three months in 1442. In June that year the Crown appointed Sir Stephen Popham* commander of the force and, as his subordinate captains, three others who had also sat in the Parliament, namely Stapleton, Sir William Euer* and John Heron*, and a fourth who had not, Sir John Passhele. In the event, Passhele did not take up his appointment and the fleet, originally intended to assemble at The Camber near Winchelsea on 31 July, did not muster at Southampton until 13 Sept.
When it finally sailed the fleet was significantly smaller than Parliament had intended, for it comprised just 1,344 men, of whom Stapleton had contributed 195.
Notwithstanding the failure of the grand naval plan of 1442, Stapleton maintained a connexion with the sea for the remainder of his career. In 1445 he was serving as a deputy of the admiral of England, John Holand, duke of Exeter, and during the last two decades of life he was closely associated with Great Yarmouth. He imported wine and other goods through Yarmouth,
Later that year, Cade’s rebellion broke out and in its aftermath Stapleton was one of the gentry whom the earl of Oxford consulted about law and order in East Anglia.
At the same time, however, Stapleton remained on good terms with the widowed duchess of Suffolk, Alice de la Pole. It was with her agreement that he and Thomas, Lord Scales, received the temporary keeping of the bulk of her late husband’s estate from the Crown in mid 1451,
Despite his links with the de la Poles, Stapleton was certainly not dependent on them, for he was an important figure in his own right. In April 1455 he and other substantial gentry from around the country well regarded by the Court received a summons to a great council at Leicester the following month.
Like most of his fellow gentry, however, Stapleton was no political diehard, and a year later he was one of those gentlemen in East Anglia who agreed to send men to Edward IV’s army. The Yorkist government allowed him to keep his place on the Norfolk bench but others were not so convinced of his loyalty. In July 1461 John Paston* was informed that Stapleton was reputed one of the King’s enemies by the common people of East Anglia; but this was just what Paston wanted to hear, since by this date he and his friends were engaged in a bitter quarrel with Sir Miles. In the same month Margaret Paston’s relative, John Berney†, complained that Stapleton and other ‘yll dysposed persones’ were falsely accusing him of serious crimes, including the murder of the county coroner, Thomas Denys. Berney further alleged that the same band was ‘makyn gret gaderynges of the Kynges rebelyones’ and trying to kill him, and he urged Paston to appeal to the authorities on his behalf.
Paston had very real reasons of his own to fear the man he called a ‘knavyssh knyght’ and ‘fals shrewe’, since Stapleton and his wife were casting aspersions on his family’s ancestry. He reacted to their claims by declaring that his ancestors ‘shall be found more worchepfull thanne hys [Stapleton’s] and hys wyfes’, but this was bluster, for his grandfather, Clement Paston, was indeed of lowly origins. The main worry for the Pastons was that Stapleton had acquired an old court roll belonging to the manor of Gimmingham (a copy of which had subsequently found its way into the King’s hands) since this appears to have shown that Clement had been a bondsman.
Notwithstanding the attempts by the Pastons and their friends to question his loyalty to Edward IV, Stapleton retained his place on the Norfolk bench (except for a hiatus in late 1464 and early 1465) until his death. Apart from his quarrel with the Pastons, the last few years of his life were largely uneventful. In 1463 he acquired a royal pardon,
The will was the document he had made before going to sea over 20 years earlier, and just before his death he updated it with a codicil. Dated 18 Sept. 1466, this reveals that he had recently arranged for trustees to keep possession of his manors in Hampshire and Wiltshire for four years after his death, so that they might use the income from these properties to pay for his debts, legacies and various pious bequests.
Within 16 months of the MP’s death, his widow Katherine married Joan’s father-in-law, Sir Richard Harcourt, who was pardoned as ‘of Ingham’ in early 1472.
