Humphrey was born in late September 1427 as the scion of a junior branch of the ancient family of Stafford. His father, Sir John, was the second son of one of the wealthiest knights in south-western and western England, Sir Humphrey Stafford ‘of the silver hand’, and was fighting in France at the time when his father contracted for him a marriage to one of the daughters of William, Lord Botreaux.
As both of the boy’s grandfathers were still alive, his wardship did not escheat to the Crown, and it is probable that he remained in the care of Sir Humphrey or of Lord Botreaux, who resumed control over the lands they had respectively settled on his parents.
This commission aside, many of Humphrey’s activities in the 1450s are difficult to disentangle from those of two namesakes, resident respectively at Halmond’s Frome in Herefordshire and Grafton in Worcestershire.
Unlike his uncle William, Humphrey maintained close relations with the family of Butler or Ormond into which his first cousin Avice (heiress of the principal Stafford estates) had married. Thus, in 1451 he assisted Thomas Ormond of Swavesey (brother of Avice’s husband, James, earl of Wiltshire), Henry Filongley* and Thomas St. Barbe of Brent in finding sureties of £2,500 for the release of another of their brothers, John, from French captivity,
However, Stafford had scant opportunity to enjoy his newly acquired wealth before England descended into open civil war. Ever since the end of the duke of York’s second protectorate in 1456 tensions between York’s supporters and Henry VI’s court had continued to simmer. A last ditch effort in the spring of 1458 to bring about a reconciliation came to nothing, and in the autumn of 1459 the two sides faced each other in pitched battle. In October the Yorkists were routed at Ludford Bridge, and the duke of York and his principal allies driven into exile. Richard Neville, earl of Warwick, and York’s eldest son, Edward, earl of March, had sought refuge in the fortified port of Calais, where they posed a very real threat to the Lancastrian regime in England. Even before the engagement at Ludford, Henry Beaufort, duke of Somerset, had been appointed captain of Calais in Warwick’s place and he now sought to assume his office and set sail, only to be driven away by bad weather and diverted to the neighbouring castle of Guînes.
Stafford’s movements at this crucial time present something of a problem. At some stage in the early months of 1460, either as part of Somerset’s main force or in a subsequent bid to reinforce him, John Audley alias Tuchet*, a retainer of the earl of Wiltshire, sailed for Picardy. In his company was a Humphrey Stafford – either this MP or his cousin Humphrey Stafford IV*.
In any event, nothing further is heard of the former MP. If it was he who was taken prisoner at the same time as Audley, he may not have copied the latter’s adoption of the Yorkist cause shortly afterwards, for, back in England by Easter 1460, a Humphrey Stafford was named among the feoffees of Robert, Lord Hungerford and Moleyns, a staunch adherent of the Lancastrians.
