Lord Tavistock ‘is by much the most amiable being I ever saw, young or old’, wrote Gilly Williams to George Selwyn, 12 Dec. 1764.
If there was a perfectly amiable and unblemished character ... the universal esteem in which the virtues of that young Lord were held, seemed to allow that he was the person.
Tavistock’s own ardent wish (‘my infatuation’) was to enter the army, but ‘in deference to a father to whom his life was so important’, he contented himself with service in the militia.
Returned for Bedfordshire unopposed in April 1761, he went abroad in October. On 22 Dec. he wrote from Genoa to his friend Thomas Robinson jun.:
applied himself to an ardent study of the law for six months to learn by his own knowledge if there was not a possibility of procuring a divorce for a wife on the notorious adultery of her husband.
From a passage in the ms of Mems. Geo. III, in the possession of Lord Waldegrave, omitted by the editor.
‘I have lost the greatest prospect of happiness I had ever formed to myself’, he wrote to Robinson.
Asked in November 1762 to move an address congratulating the Queen on the birth of the Prince of Wales,
I see the D. of B. is well pleased with the offer, and wishes it may take place; as far as his very great delicacy towards his son will allow him to wish anything that is contrary to his inclination.
In March 1763 Tavistock was again in Paris. He wrote on the 16th to Robinson:
In the House he naturally followed his father’s line. But his attendance, even when he was in England, seems to have been irregular. Thus during the struggle over Wilkes and general warrants, on 15 Feb. 1764 he appears in a list sent by Augustus Hervey to Grenville
that Lord Tavistock declared a detestation of all public business, and most particularly of the House of Commons; that this dislike led him to wish to be called up to the House of Peers ... he was persuaded that Lord Tavistock meant, if possible, to decline standing again for Bedfordshire.
Horace Walpole, as usual well informed, writes:
To observers it was clear that he much disapproved the want of principle in the relations and dependants of his parents; yet so respectful was his duty to his father, and so attentive his tenderness to his mother ... that Lord Tavistock’s repugnance to their connections and politics was only observable by his shunning Parliament, and by withdrawing himself from their society to hunting and country sports.
After his marriage, which was very happy, Tavistock settled at Houghton Park House, near Ampthill, which his father had given him. Gentle, generous, and extremely modest, ‘his large fortune’, writes Walpole, ‘he shared with his contemporary friends, assisting them in purchasing commissions’.
Even more remarkable and unusual was his concern for ‘the common people’. When his regiment of militia was being disbanded, he wrote to his father, 19 Dec. 1762,
The principle point I always laboured at of preserving their morals and not making them bad countrymen by disciplining them into good soldiers, has succeeded ... I never saw men to the last moment more orderly and well disciplined ... I own I am vain of their behaviour as soldiers but much more so of them as orderly, well-disposed men.
And when in the autumn of 1766 ‘the distresses of the common people’ in the neighbourhood were ‘very great’, and his own crop large, he sold it to the poor at a low price.
Nothing can have been more quiet than the behaviour of our people has been, though they have suffered very much ... I hope, my dearest father, you will approve of what I have done; indeed, my only distress was, that I should do it when it can’t be done by you, for I understand from Miller you have no wheat by you: however, I am sure this will be a great help to all the country and Woburn and its neighbourhood will come in for a share.
On 10 Mar. 1767 Tavistock was thrown when hunting, and a kick from his horse fractured his skull. He lingered 12 days. ‘No private man was ever more universally the object of public concern’, wrote Hans Stanley to Lady Spencer on the 19th.
