Henry de Ros, as he was familiarly known, was ‘for several years the glass of fashion in the circles of ton’. He was heir to an ancient barony called out of abeyance for his mother, who was second cousin five times removed of the previous baron, by Lord Grenville’s mediation with the King in 1806.
In January 1818 there was a scandal when he was caught in flagrante delicto with Harriet, daughter of William Spencer; he disowned the child she was expecting, producing proofs that the lady was, to quote Lady Spencer ‘as common as the street’ and had invited him to her father’s house on the strength of a casual encounter on the Steyne. ‘De Rot’, as he was now dubbed, was soon discovered to be ‘somewhat of a roué’. By 1823 Creevey could describe him as ‘one of the cleverest and most hardened villains in [town]’. Eventually he was accused of cheating at cards (1837).
He died 29 Mar. 1839 at his villa in Grove Road, St. John’s Wood.
