Ludlow’s father was a prosperous county gentleman with extensive estates in Hampshire and Wiltshire. In 1601 he conveyed the manors of Tadley and Sherborne St. John, Hampshire, to Ludlow shortly after the latter’s marriage to Lettice West.
Ludlow shared his father’s reputation for irascibility and litigiousness, and much of his life is a tale of violence, lawsuits and family quarrels. In 1602 he was accused of attempting to murder Joel King, his father’s former servant who had eloped with and secretly married one of Ludlow’s sisters. In October, after the family had failed to intimidate King into leaving the daughter, a group of Ludlow’s men severely beat him in a Berkshire wood. This was followed in December by a more serious assault led by Ludlow (disguised in a taffeta mask) in which King was ambushed while riding to market from Tadley. The gang thrust pins down King’s throat, then hanged him from a tree until he nearly expired. After several days spent regaining his health, King wrote a description of his attackers, by which means Ludlow was accused of assault.
Ludlow had sat for Andover in 1601 with the support of his father-in-law, Lord De La Warr. By 1604, as a young man with a legal training and valuable estates (Tadley Park alone was taxed at £20),
It was perhaps his difficult nature, as well as the fact that his father was still alive, which prevented Ludlow from acquiring local office until late in life, although the duties and responsibilities of a magistrate failed to tame him. Where his father had been concerned with the welfare of ministers, Ludlow showed contempt.
Ludlow’s family life was equally fraught with difficulties, and was exasperated by the hostility of his stepmother. One instance involved land worth £1,400 in Sutton Veny and Hatchbury, Wiltshire, sold by William Button II† to Sir Edmund Ludlow in 1585. As part of Ludlow’s marriage settlement this property was to be conveyed to him upon Sir Edmund’s death, but by 1618 he was demanding its profits to enable him to settle debts incurred by his large family. His father not only refused to comply, but was also accused of detaining the rents from certain estates in Somerset which had been devolved to Ludlow by his father-in-law.
Ludlow’s relations with his children were similarly strained. In 1630 his eldest son petitioned the Privy Council to compel Ludlow to pay him annuities. Ludlow duly complied, but immediately reneged on the arrangements mediated, whereupon the Council, already impatient with Ludlow for his earlier refusal to pay the Loan, threatened him with prison unless he paid his son £100 annually.
