Stanhope, who had been damaged physically by the musket ball which lodged against his spine at the siege of Saint Sebastian in 1813, and emotionally by his unorthodox upbringing at the hands of his eccentric father, failed to find a seat in 1820. Later that year he married Lady Frederica Murray, ‘of mathematical celebrity’, whose family provided him with the affection which he had missed in his childhood.
He divided against the removal of Catholic peers’ disabilities, 30 Apr. 1822. He was in the protectionist minority of 24 in favour of a fixed duty of 40s. on imported corn, 8 May, but voted with government against repeal of the salt duties, 28 June. He divided for the aliens bill, 19 July 1822, arguing that ‘no person would object to it, who had not done something wrong in his own country’; he thought his ‘20 minutes oration ... went off pretty well’.
What a sad and unexpected ending to our former gay companion. It is to be regretted he did not end his days in the trenches of San Sebastian, for he met with nothing but disappointments and misfortunes afterwards. He was cut by many on account of his supposed change in politics, he lost his wife, the fashionable world that thought him so agreeable in a capricious humour suddenly voted him a bore, and at last he finished his days by a desperate act of insanity.
The Whig George Agar Ellis* noted that Stanhope was ‘a good and clever though not agreeable person’.
