On first meeting Barham in 1833, Lady Salisbury described him as ‘not good looking, nor the reverse: tall, with small eyes and a reddish face and rather tigerish in appearance’. As a friend of his betrothed, she subsequently came to regard him as ‘a good sort of man’.
At the 1831 general election he offered again for Stockbridge, which stood to be disfranchised by the Grey ministry’s reform bill. He deplored this on the hustings, but professed himself to be a reformer in the broad sense and was returned unopposed.
At the 1832 general election he answered the call of the reform party in Westmorland, to which he was connected via the earls of Thanet. A hostile report portrayed him as ‘an admirable equestrian, and excellent shot, elegant and accomplished in his manners’ but dismissed ‘his qualifications as a Member for the county’. Aspersions were cast on his ability as a public speaker and an unsubstantiated rumour circulated that ‘his private character is not what it ought to be’.
